Ken "Blanks" Harrell

What if the person you meet on the WEB isn't so cute afterall...*lol*

*TOPIC* If you're "attracted" to someone that you meet over the Internet...and then you actually meet them in person...and realize...that you are only attracted to their PICS and not them...*lol* Then what? How do you tell a "cyber-boo"...let's just keep it VIRTUAL! *Please POST your thoughts*

Tags: cyber dating, internet dating, meeting

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Tell them exactly that. Let them know you are attracted to the mystique of the cyber relationship. You were intrigued but you should have kept the relationship a cyber relationship. Let them know you can remain friends.

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Good solid advice! Thanks! Anyone else out there in cyberland??

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I think my actions speak for themselves when we don't ever meet up again. I truly feel that most people know whether or not they put up 'Glamor Shots' or old highschool pictures or pictures when they went to a concert or wedding and that picture is the best they have ever looked. Or the picture is carefully cropped or the person has turned themselves to get the best angle possible that hides a few flaws.........knowing full well what u see in person hardly comes close to the picutres

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I think the best way to do it is to tell them straight out. I actually like the adventure of talking and chillin virtually. I thought I was up for the dating thing, but due to how we met, I would rather keep it virtual. It makes it more exciting this way, you do understand my concern right? if that doesn't fly..........cut all connection if they can't understand you do like them like that.

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